When to start training a puppy?

Published on November 18, 2025 at 9:58 AM

You need to train according to both the stage and the age of your dog. Each phase of a dog’s life comes with its own needs.

Let’s assume you’re bringing home a puppy, though the same principles apply to a rescue dog. During the first little while in your home, your new dog will go through what’s often called the honeymoon period.

At first, it may look like they adore you, want to be near you all the time, and are eager to please—but what’s really happening is that they’re seeking safety and stability. Rescue dogs are adjusting to a brand-new environment, and puppies removed from their litter are still figuring out what’s safe and what’s not.

This honeymoon period can last anywhere from a couple of weeks to a full month. So if you bring home an 8-week-old puppy, you might see this sweet, easy behavior until 11 or 12 weeks. They follow you around because you’re providing attention, reinforcement, and psychological safety.

But the honeymoon always ends.

The next stage could be summed up as: “The honeymoon is over, and the world is fascinating!”

If your dog hasn’t had structured learning and predictable reinforcement from you, this is when things can get chaotic. Without guidance, that little four-legged learning machine will shift its curiosity toward the environment:

  • Shoes become delicious.

  • Sofas explode feathers.

  • The backyard becomes a dig site.

If we don’t provide intentional enrichment, engagement, relationship building, and learning, the environment will happily take over that job—and not in ways we enjoy.

This “world is amazing!” stage usually runs from the end of the honeymoon (around 12 weeks) all the way up to 8–10 months. For many owners, this is when frustration peaks. In fact, between 8–10 months and about 18 months is when most young dogs are surrendered or families finally reach out for help.

But here’s the truth: puppies are incredible learners from the moment they come home.

Don’t wait until things get overwhelming. Training—just like with people—is a lifelong process. When we guide, teach, and support our dogs from the start, we set them up to thrive at every stage of life.